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Aug 20, 2010
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No Problem
by: Melanie

I am 48 years old and I cannot get over the feeling I get everytime someone tells me "No Problem". That phrase came about with the younger generation and I honestly do not feel that they think it's inconsiderate in any way. I don't think they understand since most of the younger generation have not been taught how to verbally show respect for others yet at the same time I cringe every time I hear it. Even though I understand how they think there is nothing wrong with it....I can't get past it.

Melanie

Apr 17, 2010
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"No Problem"
by: Elaine

I think it really depends on the sort of tradition/culture you were brought up in. In my family, boasting is rude, we usually lower ourselves. (E.g.: If I got a A+ in something, I say I can still improve)

But in my friend's family, when she gets a B+, she can brag and not say anything about "improving" herself.

I've learnt to be mannered myself, but not to expect everyone else to be.

Hope this answers your question.

Regards,
Elaine

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