What are my favorite links and resources I use for elegance? Here are some, just to name a few.
No one is perfect and like everyone, I have my daily struggles.
This keeps me from being the woman I want to be, or from being elegant!
I find it helpful to read a short inspirational page to help me get through the day.
I subscribe to the above link and without fail, a free daily message gets sent to my email.
As I sit down with my tea at my desk to start my day, I click on my inbox and spent my first two minutes on my desk reading, then meditate on it for another minute or two. I also try to think about it when I am in my yoga classes, during meditation time.
In the link I shared with you, there is also a video and audio option. Now I wouldn’t recommend this if it didn’t work for me!
As I explained about how devotionals help me “become elegant”.
Now I respect all faiths, and I’m just referring to what I know. Honestly I’m at my best when I’m strong in my faith.
When asked about why I refer to Jesus or God in my website, I replied…
I only write what I know
P.s. This is going to be a long post because I would love to explain myself. It helps me get this issue off my chest. It kind of is a secret, but out of respect that this is not a christian website and out in the public sphere, I’ve been writing with restraint.
If you have no time to read it, the comment title says it all. Thanks! 🙂
Thank you Meg for your email. I try to be as sensitive as I can about the issue of faith.
This is not a christian website. I’m focusing on elegance and womanhood.
On the issue of catering to all faiths, I can only write what I know. I can’t speak for everyone. I try to add ‘your own spirituality’ in some of the pages and you’ll definitely see them.
For me, it is just easier and more natural to write ‘God’. I suppose God has many names and trust that my readers will personalize all articles to themselves anyway.
Why do I include “God and Jesus” in little bits here and there? Actually I only include them in pages where I talk about having a good heart. That’s because I believe a good heart is the greatest foundation of elegance. (Next would be education and thinking).
I’ve tried prevent myself infusing my faith into my articles but I’ve long realized – I cannot be honest that way. Personally, I just cannot seem to get better at elegance without having faith.
To be downright honest, I can’t seem to be gracious, elegant, kind, compassionate without a mix of daily bible reading or devotional or a spiritual book, prayer, serving and attending church. To be even bolder to say so on a personal level, I feel that I cannot do ANYTHING (literally) without Jesus. But that’s just me. I only know what works the best for me.
The minute I’m getting cranky, impatient or having moody thoughts (which will reflect a subtle frown on my face), I know I haven’t been spending time reading or praying (casual talking to God), or attending church. The longer I stay away from church, serving others, the more inward, self-focused I get. I become self-conscious, negative, discouraged … far from being elegant and gracious and hopeful!
If I don’t spend time with Jesus…I’ve got nothing to give. I depend on divine inspiration for this website!
So there, my ‘secret’ is out.
I also understand there will always be a few naysayers and a couple of people who disagree with how I do things. The Christians would want to see more ‘God’ in it and the non-Christians would want me to stay on neutral ground. In essence, I can’t please anyone and this is a private website anyway, I just wrote this because it is my great interest and passion. 🙂
Thank you for reading this and I most sincerely hope you will understand and respect our very minor differences.
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